My experience with "The Use of Force"

When I was around 6 years old I went to the dentist to get a cleanup and the doctor was joking around and I was laughing and everything was great till he said to me that I had a cavity and it was not enough to drill it he need it to take it out. He said dont worry it's one of your milk teeth it will grow a new in no time. I was scared but at the same time I knew that it needed to be done. Then the moment arrive, he told me i'm just checking I'm not going to pull it out yet and in that moment he pulled it, when I was unaware and unprepared. I cried, I was scared and I hated him for that.

It took me 5 years to get over that and trust in another Dentist, I didn't touch a dentist office in 5 years I was terrified, I didn't like that he lied to me, maybe he did the right thing but at that time for me it was horrendous.

Maybe the use of force is neccesarily in some cases but to lie is not a good way to gain the confidence of someone. I got braces so I need to go to the dentist office every month, that was a great lesson for me. Now I trust them more and I have learned to appreciate their work.